5-minute reset for emotionally drained teachers

Because sometimes, five minutes is all you’ve got—and it can be enough.

Let’s be real: teaching is hard. It’s beautiful and fulfilling, yes—but it’s also exhausting. Emotional exhaustion can creep in slowly or hit like a tidal wave. Whether it’s after a challenging class, a tough conversation, or just the cumulative weight of everything on your plate, there are moments when you just need a reset.

The good news? You don’t need an hour-long yoga session or a weekend retreat to find a little peace. Sometimes, five minutes is all it takes to shift your energy, calm your nervous system, and come back to center.

Here are a few powerful, low-effort ways to reset when you're emotionally drained—and all you’ve got is a quick breather between classes.

 

1. The “Drop It All” Breathing Break

What it is: A simple, intentional pause to come back to your breath.
How to do it:

  • Sit or stand comfortably.

  • Close your eyes (if it’s safe and you feel okay doing so).

  • Inhale deeply for a count of 4, hold for 4, exhale for 6.

  • Repeat 5 times.

Why it works: Deep breathing lowers cortisol (stress hormone) levels and signals to your brain that you're safe. Even one minute of this can reset your nervous system.

 

2. The “Name It to Tame It” Check-In

What it is: A fast emotional inventory to get clarity on what you’re feeling.
How to do it:

  • Ask yourself: What am I feeling right now?

  • Name it without judgment: "I’m overwhelmed," "I’m frustrated," or even "I’m done."

  • Follow it with: What do I need right now? Maybe it's quiet. Maybe it’s support.

Why it works: Naming your emotion reduces its intensity. It also helps you take aligned action, instead of just reacting on autopilot.

 

3. The “Get Out of Your Head” Grounding Trick

What it is: A quick sensory grounding technique to bring you back into the present moment.
How to do it: Try the 5-4-3-2-1 method:

  • Name 5 things you can see

  • 4 things you can feel

  • 3 things you can hear

  • 2 things you can smell

  • 1 thing you can taste

Why it works: When emotions take over, this brings your attention out of the whirlwind in your head and back into your body.

 

4. The “Mini Joy” Moment

What it is: A deliberate hit of something that sparks joy or calm.
How to do it:

  • Step outside and feel the sun on your face

  • Listen to one song that lifts your spirits

  • Watch a 1-minute funny animal video

  • Sip a hot drink and savor the first sip

Why it works: A burst of dopamine or a quiet moment of pleasure reminds your brain there’s still beauty in the chaos.

 

5. The “Release and Reset” Write-Out

What it is: A quick brain-dump of everything you’re holding.
How to do it:

  • Take a scrap of paper or notes app

  • Write freely for 2–3 minutes: no structure, no filters

  • End with one positive thought or affirmation: “I did my best today.” or “This moment will pass.”

Why it works: Getting the noise out of your head and onto paper can feel like releasing pressure from a shaken bottle.

 

Final Thoughts:

You are allowed to pause.
You are allowed to feel tired.
You are allowed to need five minutes.

Teaching asks so much of your mind, heart, and body—often all at once. These quick resets aren’t solutions to systemic problems, but they are small, meaningful ways to care for yourself in the moment.

So next time you feel that emotional weight settling in—don’t push through. Take five. You’ve earned it.

Sandy

Sandy is a qualified counsellor, certified life coach, and meditation teacher with over 20 years of experience in education. Having worked across high schools, universities, and leadership roles, she understands the deep challenges and quiet toll teaching can take.

Through her practice, Dear Teacher, Breathe, she offers counselling, coaching, and retreats designed to support the wellbeing of educators. Her work is grounded in compassion, lived experience, and a deep belief that teachers deserve care, too.

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